Bayes' theorem isn't really about probability. It's about how to update beliefs in light of evidence.
Start with a prior — what you believed before. See evidence. The posterior is your new belief, weighted by how surprising the evidence would be under each hypothesis.
The mistake people make: treating their prior as if it were the truth. The mistake people also make: throwing away the prior because new evidence arrived.
Good thinking is calibrated updating. It is also rare.